Menace of Revealing

"I have something to tell you..", looking to the speakers eyes I waited eagerly to hear that, "but make sure you don't tell it to anybody ok? No one should know it, Understand?!" I nodded in such a way that the speaker is convinced. Good God, didn't ask me to make God Promise, Mother Promise and all other promises in the name of my kith and kin. I believe in these kind of promises for only 2 hours i.e., from the time when the promise is made and till next day I boast as a person who does not believe in all these silly matters ;)
Secret according to me is not only the name of a self help book but about some knowledge whether good or bad known to oneself. The moment you share it, it loses its confidentiality but still with a hope that those who now knew it, can be trusted.
I have my own idea on what to disclose and what not. And that is what we call Freedom of speech.
Secret when shared, to some extent curb this right from you. I believe, we cannot qualify each and everything that we alone discover or known could be categorized to Secret or Confidential or Private.
Certain things like:

I will not tell from where I bought this "Stuff"

or

          We would not share the information on how we did this

Secret is a kind of behavior, I would say,  that an individual possess being fond at keeping things about oneself or others unknown.
The funny part of such behavior is that majority of people tend to pass it onto others based on trust invoked.

Negative Isn't always Bad!!

If positive thinking helps us to achieve our dreams, then
When we are advised to overlook our future with positive attitude, we feel an energy and determines to see, understand that every being has good in it.
Some forwarded SMS in my mobile made me think some industries flourished due to basic negative thinking.
For example the Drug Industries - I meant only the production.
But in case of discovery, there is a contradiction - Developing a drug will be with an intention to reduce the rise in the level of diseased. We have here both positive and negative thoughts which direct us forward.
Positive - It would bring down the count of diseased people.
Negative - The diseased count is increasing every hour
Every safety measures adopted is a result of negative thinking.
The Army, Fire force, Insurance, Banking all rely on such a negative aspect

For your Kind Attention - The words when not written or read out, but when Acted!

A subject which I use when sending resumes. Something which we have been hearing during alert announcements at stations, bus stations
At times, people do not say this but do perform 'for the attention'. We say celebrities or would be celebrities appoint PR which is a way to seek attention.
Endorsing brands is an another mode. And now we have social sites which help us a lot to realize that we are attended. See, I am here as blogger (may be), this too is a way that I believe I can share my views which I could not by speaking.
In most of the cases, it is because of our face we win the attention. Every one in the world are born actors, that we can intimate others with our face about our emotions. We can pretend we are weak in front of our colleagues gaining their care or we can act that we are afraid in front of our Boss so that he/she thinks we can be controlled to their will, we can act that we are loyal to a friend by keeping their secrets.
Notifying oneself as throughout year sick person to the spectators around, does not make them feel that they need to have special care on you, instead you are sealed as an owner of weak body.
At times, when we pretend to be scared or dumbo to our seniors it makes them happy and that would be reflected in their activities towards their juniors.
And now when we deal with our so called Friends - which has several suffixes like Best, True , Good, and it goes on. Friends are those who redefined the quote Blood is thicker than water. Though we say that 'I can read your eyes' or mind or whatever, still it is not possible, unless with Sodium pentothal!!! Sometimes our loyal friends gives up the loyalty when it comes to save their own ass. Again which might be of another way to win attention!
I believe that the decision to keep up the trust is a bold step
If you are trustworthy and sincere, then you need not be an attention seeker.

Committed arouses a fear of losing in those involved that one has to consider or take granted the involved ones opinion. And, for this you have to either move accordingly by considering or else by convincing. Being dependent keeps you bothered and when liberal you reduce conflicts

Something I have learned is If you cook ♨, cook it by yourself as planned, do not allow too many cooks to spoil it. Evntho at times, it does not spoil but you want to find the mistake and make urself Dissatisfied by their cooking☻

Stereotypic effects of Clicks

People waits for to b clicked perfectly so that they have the best of their faces or activities commented on FB(The most popular means of socializing apart from all other medias)!☻
A Blackmail or threat too has a new version; Like This is going to get tagged in ur profile or will get commented about!!

R Women Really aggravated by Alcoholic Men?!!

Drinking, Smoking and being in an affair is always a sin even though not to the one(s) involved; even if with hundreds of Justifications. The first two are categorized under bad habits were the latter a tongue-tied deed. Many of the matrimonial sites sell the option Habits were these columns are either left blank or being filled as “No Drinking and Smoking” or the most common phrase  “Occasionally” as preferred by the Girl and Girls family!

It is the health awareness or the post activities related to alcohol consumption that annoys female gender the most and the ultimate one when the world around recites on the negatives of the person to their loved ones. What else could be! Yes, What other people will think of!!!?But why men risk themselves? It is not that they ain’t conscious of it?!All right, this statement has purely been an orthodox one as women also boozes. I am here stating about the ordinary family were women does not drink as they think it is not healthy or a good habit. In such case women are the victims of the men’s hang overs. Alcohol is a medium to express both happiness and sorrow according to their excuses. Most common- “It is Friday,weekend!!, My wife is pregnant, my sister had a baby, My daughter is in love, I am getting engaged, I broke up, It is my, your, their Birthday where’s/are the bottle/s??!!, I own a car/house so treating me, you and all with the processed Ethanol! These are only excuses they make fearing that they may lose their position in their loved one’s heart. But there are others sole consumers who had made it as a routine with no reason - an addiction. Never have a reason, being adviced by all around but still fails to take off their hands off the drinking Glass.
(To be continued..)